The fact that anyone thinks this is an actual problem trans women have is what’s hilarious. Depictions of us as people who don’t recognize boundaries or consent are misrepresentations. None of us want to be with someone who doesn’t even recognize our existence. You can twist the author’s (admittedly poorly-worded) writing on this as much as you want, but that won’t make it true. In other words, we just aren’t that into you. Sorry, not sorry. Turns out transphobia is so NOT a turn on for us.